When I met my gf 5 years ago she was very thin. She was is 5’ 4” 140 lbs. She has kept putting in weight and saying that she was going to lose the weight . Last fall she wanted my scale that measured body fat. She was over 30% body fat and around 188 lbs. I think she’s probably around 200 lbs now or probably a little bit more. What’s new is she is getting significant fat at the top part of her arms. Her pleas of wanting to lose weight have been less. I told her that if she put in more that I’m fine with it but I’m fine with it either way.
When we first met she likes athletic men. I was around 165 when we first met and I’m 185 lbs now. We’ve been eating a lot of take out in the last 6 weeks or so and I put on 15 lbs. I wanted to know her thoughts without asking her directly and I said that I’ve never weighed this much. She told me that I should put on weight and put on body fat. I asked her how much and she said 10 lbs.
Ive been drinking heavy whipping cream. I’ve notice that I’ve gain weight on my butt and my lower belly and love handles have increased. I was sitting on the coach tonight and she pats my stomach and she says you’re getting a tummy. She was running her fingers on my belly and my sides and running up to my chest and back down to my sides. She paid a lot of attention in these areas tonight.
I said what if my tummy increased to see how she reacted. She pointed at my arms and she said once that increases the tummy will decrease.
My gf is a foodie. I appreciate that about her. I’ve started to appreciated food more since we met. She couldn’t get her hands off of me tonight. I get the feeling on the side we’ve been more together to mutually gain and she’s encouraging me to gain weight but when I try to get a sense of what she means she tells me a little bit or she hints at bulking up my muscles. I’m muscular but I’m also gaining fat.
I don’t believe her anymore when she says that she’s going to lose weight because she’s been saying that for years. It’s like a dream come true with how she’s been increasing and never maintaining or decreasing.
I think that either she’s telling me not to worry about gaining weight and that I’ll lose it knowing that I’ll continue gaining with her cooking and our eating out. Whenever I start getting a belly and my love handles increases she strokes it. She even said once get as big as you want. She knows that I’m into heavier women but she doesn’t understands my kink. I’d appreciate an outsiders opinion.
When we first met she likes athletic men. I was around 165 when we first met and I’m 185 lbs now. We’ve been eating a lot of take out in the last 6 weeks or so and I put on 15 lbs. I wanted to know her thoughts without asking her directly and I said that I’ve never weighed this much. She told me that I should put on weight and put on body fat. I asked her how much and she said 10 lbs.
Ive been drinking heavy whipping cream. I’ve notice that I’ve gain weight on my butt and my lower belly and love handles have increased. I was sitting on the coach tonight and she pats my stomach and she says you’re getting a tummy. She was running her fingers on my belly and my sides and running up to my chest and back down to my sides. She paid a lot of attention in these areas tonight.
I said what if my tummy increased to see how she reacted. She pointed at my arms and she said once that increases the tummy will decrease.
My gf is a foodie. I appreciate that about her. I’ve started to appreciated food more since we met. She couldn’t get her hands off of me tonight. I get the feeling on the side we’ve been more together to mutually gain and she’s encouraging me to gain weight but when I try to get a sense of what she means she tells me a little bit or she hints at bulking up my muscles. I’m muscular but I’m also gaining fat.
I don’t believe her anymore when she says that she’s going to lose weight because she’s been saying that for years. It’s like a dream come true with how she’s been increasing and never maintaining or decreasing.
I think that either she’s telling me not to worry about gaining weight and that I’ll lose it knowing that I’ll continue gaining with her cooking and our eating out. Whenever I start getting a belly and my love handles increases she strokes it. She even said once get as big as you want. She knows that I’m into heavier women but she doesn’t understands my kink. I’d appreciate an outsiders opinion.
3 years